SNSD's back with their 3rd mini album: Hoot! Today the single HOOT is released, with the Internet calling it "bond girls, austin power's girls style". That's so cool! The rhythm is just captivating, with the twisting feeling when the chorus played. I repeated the track at least 6 times in an hour, and could not satisfy myself with the intriguing (kinda strange) song. Well, I guess each time they released a song, I feel it as "peculiarly sounded piece of music". This one is no less.
Running devil run run. It's sad to note that the word attraction is not familiar with most teenagers who are eager to taste the forbidden fruit called love. Whatever you do to profess your love, be it through actions, words, or something else, nothing escapes the word attraction. Attraction is what happens in a love story. Boys attracted to girls (easy part), but girls attracted to boys (tougher part in the mind of boys, not men). Girls are not logical machine which you input a certain formula and you'll get your result as how you supposed it to be. Girls are feeling-driven angels who could care less who you are but will give you her world with what you do to make her feel like home. That's (sadly) why girls sometimes are attracted to bad boys (real bad, not those naughty bad but evil), being abused yet stick to them. Good (read: naive) boys don't get their dream girls and weep like a baby. Come on, it's just about attraction.
I don't think I'm qualified at all to teach anything about attraction, but this is a personal blog, and it spells my thoughts. So I just gonna say, whatever works, it must be attraction first, others later. In order to attract a girl, a guy (hey, I'm a guy) gotta find the switch (normally it's located on the typical places for common girls, but for hotties, sorry, their switch is just the other side) which sparks the girls' attention (just like brand marketing: customer awareness). Then to retain the heat (come on, I don't know what your girl likes, most probably just love to hang on the phone for hours or a stroll to watch the sun sets), you need lotsa communication. I mean, there's nothing better than to talk. Talking can be manipulative (read: beneficial), as to talk her heart out it means to get her engaged in you (routine, studies, works, hobbies). There's gotta establish a link between both of you before things get (wild) going on.
Sometimes I just wonder what's the use of routine. Routine means doing something over and over again and achieving similar (not identical) result. However, getting engaged to a girl is not something routine like brushing the teeth, it's something else (can be routine, if you court girls more than I talk to my mom). Girls aren't expecting you to go over and hand over the rose and say I love you outta nowhere. That's called pure horror. Girls get excited slowly, way slower than you get excited when seeing them. So gotta be patient. Do more reading online about how to date girls out will help. Girls appreciate it if you pay much effort to make the relationship successful by all means.
Just to clear things up. Guys don't think with their brain. Girls don't, either. So it's fair and square. Although both genders use different thinking organs, the superficial result is the same (fall in love), but bear in mind, most of the time, the intention is not as simple as what we see. Attraction is the bridge, but it's never the reason. So, don't be naive. There's nothing like a pure love except what you see in the cinema. Why expect one when you yourself ain't doing so?
sign out
~phi
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